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Thursday, April 20, 2006

Doubly-Satisfying Communications
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Next time you have an important doctor's visit, and not just the eye doctor, bring along a partner. It doesn't have to be a spouse or immediate relative - sometimes a good friend is best.

How many times have you had a key question pop into your head as soon as you depart the clinic? I frequently receive distressed messages from visitors to our WebMD Eye & Vision Disorder Community who seek clarification regarding proposed surgery, treatment alternatives, or suspected complications. Here's why having that third person in the room optimizes the physician-patient encounter:

Accurate recollections- "Did she say once- or twice-a-day?" Having a partner handy with a notepad improves compliance with the doctor's recommendations. The two of you can debrief each other afterwards to resolve any misunderstandings.

All points get covered - In the middle of a focused dialogue it's easy to overlook other concerns. Your partner can help keep the conversation on track.

All questions get asked - Having a second brain and another pair of ears in the room doubles the chances that all of your concerns are mentioned and thoroughly discussed.

Calmer interactions - People are more civilized when observers are present. Your partner can speak on your behalf if you get too emotional or simply call for a 'timeout'.

Sure, you have to accept personal responsibility for preserving your own good health, but that does not mean you have to go it alone!



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Posted by: Dr. Lloyd at 1:02 AM

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