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Tuesday, May 29, 2007

Prescription for Graduates
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Nobody asked me but I'm ready anyway.

As we approach peak graduation season, families and young scholars convene for diplomas and a long speech - the commencement address. Did you notice that the last six letters spell 'cement'? Graduation ceremonies are harder for me to endure than any final examination.

Having sat through enough cheesy renditions of Pomp & Circumstance I put together my own address to the graduates. Here's what I would tell the Class of 2007 as they prepare to enter the real world.

Do What You Like and Like What You Do

You can only succeed in doing things you like. Sure, you can fake it for awhile, but eventually you will be miserable trapped in a job you hate. Find work that interests you, challenges you, and keeps you engaged. Don't ever make a career choice to please someone else.

Options Give You Freedom
So long as you have options you have the freedom to make exciting choices in your life. Protect those options. For example, one DUI arrest can scuttle many career opportunities - some employers won't even consider your application.

Visualize Your Success
I learned about visualization while training for a marathon. The night before the big race I got in my car and actually drove the final 2 miles so that I could see what it would look like. Later that night I dreamt about finishing. Next day the finish line was there just as I had visualized it! Imagine how it will feel to get hired, your first pay raise, your first promotion. Visualization works!

Happiness is Everywhere
Here's a final secret that will carry you far - be happy. People like to be around those who smile and speak positively. Moaners become loners. No matter how difficult the situation becomes there is always time for an encouraging word and an optimistic attitude. Success tends to gravitate towards positive thinkers. This attitude is best summed-up by a dog lover's bumper sticker: Wag more - Bark less!

So there it is, my advice to America's graduates. Remember, if Bill Cosby has to cancel I'm still available!

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Posted by: Dr. Lloyd at 10:00 AM

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